weclome my bog

It is my birthday today so I am issuing a blog challenge.

much like sync saw someone else's post and wrote a post about sync's daily drivers, i saw sync's post and wanted to do the same!

finally... more musics... back at it again at spotted fy. albums from 2026 to listen to Empire - CCTV (listening to now, actually!)

music is like lowkey really good???

as i am wont to point out pretty much all the time, i have a website!

i have cried at every pride parade i've ever attended. which, admittedly, has only been like, 2-3 since i moved to [REDACTED OHIO CITY] in 2017. but Still. i cry every time, i just get overwhelmed with emotion. i am from a small city (~16k people) in west…

"gonna go and not update this for another 3 months ok byeeeeeeeee" - me 3 months ago, a prophet you'll never guess what happened!

this is originally from 2025, but remains prescient, so i have updated and modified it a bit. to preface this, very obviously this post will deal with nsfw topics, as well as various fetishes, niche and otherwise, including ones that you may not like.

well. oops. started this blog and then didn't update it for three and a half months. it's. fine. at ANY RATE, let's see... life updates life's been lifing. got to see nine inch nails live in feb, which is a BIG bucket list type thing for me tbh. they've b…

in the last 5 years or so i have grown out of (at least temporarily lmao) what a certain girlbloogger on tumblr dot com calls 'timegrief'. used to, in the months/weeks/days coming up to my bday and new years i'd honestly kinda Freak It. depression, mostly,