Sarabet Chang Yuye

Change most happens when your external environment shifts, right?

Intelligence decreases substantially as you age; this affects planning for my own life and interacting with my family

Here is another unsympathetic post about money.

I need to pick one or two of my current embarrassing feelings to blog about, because if I don't, my head is going to explode like one of those deep sea fish that are physiologically unaccustomed to keeping their innards in.

"Even if the meaning is obvious, someone's inability to spell means there's something a little wrong with their minds.

"Even if the meaning is obvious, someone's inability to spell means there's something a little wrong with their minds.

It was glorious but it kind of sucked!

When I go to the playground with my toddler, the other children are usually minded by older women who speak Spanish to each other.

What my day is like.

I have a lot of long incomplete posts.

Assigned enemy at paternal line.

I've read about four books on how to plot novels.

I think this is a habit worth installing.

Earlier this year, my husband surprised me by referring to the neighbor's tree whose shade was stunting our apricot tree as 'the beech'.

When August began, I found myself asking if there's a much weaker version of bipolar (there is, it's called cyclothymia) and whether I have it.

On making something big with a partner, using AI for code, being gayer than expected, and my purpose in life.

My partner and I vibecoded a fiction cowriting website.

"Evolutionarily, it seems implausible that children be so hard.

I list some parenting/socializing scenarios in order of increasing difficulty and misery, and then go on a long tangent about how to guess how badly reproducing will damage your inner individual life.

Last month I designed the best t-shirt I've ever made, for a conference (Manifest) whose shirts I've designed for 3 years now.

Last week my friends ran an "extreme violent circling" event.

CustomInk is a good vendor if your designs are simple, or if you have a complex design and know like 10 important things they don't tell you upfront.

From the inside, what's my explanation for children having a quality of goodness that adults don't?

~20 friends ranked me on ~50 traits, good and bad.

It's unfortunate that the best vehicle for a fictional romance is not a romance novel.

Among other reasons.

I used to mostly live inside my head + outside my house, bypassing the middle zone.

The thing is, I didn’t have anyone in my life to tell me, “Ryland, don’t get into a situationship with the seventy year old woman who shot you into space to die.”

I hate looking at the deep cuts on our plastic boards, with the tiny curls of plastic at the rifts...

My second race.

Vanishing uneasily into domestic life.

She showed us the rooms that had once been ours.

Two memories of being a good student in Korea.

I have found being a wealthy housewife to be a strange combination of being an aristocrat and a servant.

It's interesting to think that my baby invites me to these running and hiding games in part because this childhood play was adaptive for animals at risk of predation.

One of my crackpot hypotheses.

Why is our species hypersensitive to explicit negative evaluation?

I recently saw someone online tell an egregious lie about my friend, who met her now-spouse in a somewhat sensational way at an orgy and subsequently had a child with him.

I got sixteen friends to sit down to dinner and rate twenty meals on a spreadsheet.

I think the US is just too poor?

A lightly edited life update I gave to friends in a group chat.

In the spirit of reporting null results.

Describing what is working for me now, and what in retrospect didn't work when I tried c25k.

People don't write about people who don't read.

Event notes for my favorite event I've ever run.

People who want to improve the lives of SAHPs or increase fertility should do something else.

A short story about Neanderthals, and my allergies.

I got a bit high last week and watched videos of trout being gutted and filleted for twenty minutes.

It’s hard to write this mistake post, but it should go into my mistakes folder, as it was the most directly expensive mistake of my life (as opposed to indirectly expensive, due to opportunity cost).

There are some social difficulties explaining my tastes but let's give it a shot.